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Adventures in Community Property: Estate of Borghi (2009)

This is yet another pop quiz that looks at how Washington courts apply our state’s community property laws to specific individuals and their unique stories.   To recap:  Washington is a community property state, which generally means that all property that a couple acquires during their marriage is presumed to be jointly owned by both spouses, while all property acquired…

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Best Interests Of The Child: What It Means

If you’ve ever been involved in a child custody dispute in Washington, you are probably familiar with, or have at least heard of the concept of “best interests of the child.”   The best interests of the child standard is a Washington court’s primary and most important consideration when making decisions about children.  Indeed, we’ve touched on the best interests standard…

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Filing For Temporary Orders – Why You (Probably) Need Them, And How To Get Them

The term “temporary orders” is shorthand for a number of different orders that you can ask the Court to enter prior to the finalization of your divorce.  They are temporary in the sense that they will be in force until they are replaced by the orders entered when you finalize your divorce (or, occasionally, later temporary orders).

WHY YOU

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How To File for Divorce In King County

Getting a divorce is way more complex than it probably should be.   In fact, depending on your case, you could end up filling out 25 or 30 forms en route to your freedom. Think of it as Washington’s way of supporting the logging industry, one unhappy marriage at a time.

Don’t fret, though.  We’re here to help.   Because…

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What Is Legal Separation?

Question: What is the difference between legal separation and dissolution (divorce)?

Answer: Not much.  The main practical difference is that you can’t get remarried.  In all other respects – property settlement, child support, etc. – you are as good as divorced.

People usually pursue legal separation instead of divorce for one of three reasons:

  1. They have

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Divorce is Double No Good

Historically, divorce has been a nasty business with equally nasty terminology.  “Custody” and “alimony” conjure up images of bile-spewing, decades-long battles.  Washington, like many states, has altered the terminology of many key divorce concepts in an effort to escape the loaded words of the bad old days, probably in the hope that more harmonious language will mean more harmonious litigation.…

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Welcome to Decoupling – The Washington Family Law Blog

de⋅cou⋅ple
[dee-kuhp-uhl] verb, -pled, -pling.

  1. to cause to become separated, disconnected, or divergent; uncouple.
  2. to absorb the shock of (a nuclear explosion): a surrounding mass of earth and rock can decouple a nuclear blast.
  3. to separate or diverge from an existing connection; uncouple.

Origin: 1595–1605; de- + couple

What about Decoupling Blog?

Decoupling offers a simple guide…

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