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Do I Have to Pay for My Daughter’s Nose Job?

Question

My sixteen year old daughter has despaired over the size of her nose for years.   I think she’s beautiful the way she is, but she says that her less-than-perfect nose is ruining her social life and her self esteem.   She recently announced that she wants to “correct” her nose over the summer break so that she can have a…

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The Split: Bringing Home The Check

The Split is an on-going series in which Decoupling talks to the people who are perhaps most affected by divorce – the kids.  We sat down with adults whose parents divorced when they were kids and talked to them about how their folks’ split affected them.  Each article will address one particular aspect of their experiences.  In this first article

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I Suspect I’m Paying My Ex Too Much for Daycare – What Should I Do?

Question

When our child support order was entered a few years ago, I was ordered to pay my ex a certain amount each month for our kid’s day care – in addition to what I pay for child support. I suspect that my ex isn’t actually spending that much on care for our children anymore – what can I do…

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Do Courts Enforce Promises To Send Kids To Private School?


Question

My wife and I always agreed that we would send our daughter to private school.  Now that we’re splitting up, she says that she can’t afford it – even though she earns the same salary.  Will the court make her stick to her promise?

Answer

Maybe.

An Order of Child support sets out the…

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How to Get Temporary Orders – Washington Child Support Worksheets

This is the final article in our series on what forms you need to file for temporary orders in your divorce case. Last week we went over the Proposed Order of Child Support.  Today we discuss the Washington Child Support Worksheets.

WHY YOU NEED IT

You must attach a completed Washington…

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How to Get Temporary Orders – Proposed Order of Child Support

This is part 6 of 8 of our series on what forms you need to file for temporary orders in your divorce case. Last time we went over the Proposed Temporary Parenting Plan.  Next time we’ll go over the Child Support Worksheets.

WHY YOU NEED IT

Washington State requires a child support order in…

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How to Get Temporary Orders – Financial Declaration

This is part 4 of 8 of our series on what forms you need to file for temporary orders in your divorce case. Last week we went over the Motion and Declaration. Next week we’ll go over the sealed financial source documents form (and accompanying documents).

A Financial Declaration is a sworn document…

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Filing For Temporary Orders – Why You (Probably) Need Them, And How To Get Them

The term “temporary orders” is shorthand for a number of different orders that you can ask the Court to enter prior to the finalization of your divorce.  They are temporary in the sense that they will be in force until they are replaced by the orders entered when you finalize your divorce (or, occasionally, later temporary orders).

WHY YOU

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Child Support – What Are Extraordinary Medical Expenses?

Washington State child support orders set out each parent’s responsibility for the child’s Extraordinary Medical Expenses.

This provision is found at paragraph 3.19 of the pattern form child support order.


An extraordinary medical expense is a medical expense which in one month amounts to more than 5% of the child support transfer payment.

If you are the parent receiving…

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Should I Pay Child Support Directly To My Ex?

So you have an Order of Child Support (OCS) saying that you owe a certain amount each month – a transfer payment. Now what?

If you’re the parent who owes child support (usually, but not always, the non-residential parent), then you’re called the “Obligor” – that is, the parent obliged to pay support for your children. The other parent (your…

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